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Linda Symonds posted a condolence

Thursday, May 7, 2020

Fun times at Ade Knox Centre. Bev was the ringleader for all the mischief we got into. Absolutely loved her. Linda Symonds.

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Sana Chaker posted a condolence

Friday, May 24, 2019

Ms. Bev, you are dearly and terribly missed. I will never forget your warm smile, beautiful personality, kind soul and caring nature. I feel so blessed to have known you and to have experienced those things first hand. You and your wonderful husband and daughter taught me so much; I share some of my fondest childhood memories with you all and I am forever grateful for that. My deepest condolences to Mr. Hal and Kris.

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Jerry and Lynn Beaudrie posted a condolence

Friday, May 24, 2019

Hal, we are so very sorry to hear of Bev's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jerry and Lynn Beaudrie

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Nancy and Dave Jeffrey posted a condolence

Wednesday, May 22, 2019

Dear Hal and Kristen, Please accept our deepest sympathies regarding Bev's passing. Hal and Bev are fantastic neighbours and no matter where you were Bev could light up the area with her smiling face, that ever present laugh and her positive attitude regardless of the day's circumstance. Her love of animals and the care and compassion she showed them was a special gift that was adored by each of our dogs. Our hearts ache for your loss. She will be greatly missed and her memory will always be a cherished one for us. Until we meet again, Nancy and Dave Jeffrey

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Ted & Norma Seagull posted a condolence

Tuesday, May 21, 2019

Dear Hal ; Norma and I wish to express our deepest condolences to you and your daughter. Those of us who have the honor of having Nurses as our wives , understand the price they pay caring for others. May God comfort you .

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Zina Chaker posted a condolence

Tuesday, May 21, 2019

There are many words that can describe Beverly’s compassionate, outgoing, and bright personality, but few that can do her justice. Losing Bev is losing a grandmother. But being blessed with her presence since I was four, means that I have gained a fortune. Bev, you cared for me and my siblings like your own, and in doing so leave us with many golden memories. There are some lessons you’ve taught me that are especially close to my heart and worth noting. I wish nothing more than to have been able to express to you just how much you were, and forever will be, appreciated. Through you, I learned how to interact with an uncertain environment. You took it upon yourself to not only welcome my family to a new city, but made us feel confident to enter a changing world without changing ourselves. You valued our differences and emphasized our similarities, always encouraging us to stay true to who we are. You opened our eyes to all the good around us, and wiped our tears when there was too much of the bad. And you did it all so effortlessly. Thank you. Through you, I learned how to knit. You made Lina and I feel like the coolest kids on the block for knowing how to make a purl stitch. You made us feel exceptionally talented and proud to show you our works of progress. You praised us, counselled us, and helped us undo all our mistakes with humour and empathy, both in knitting and in life. Thank you. Through you, I learned self-love and confidence. I will always cherish the memory of you gifting my siblings and I teddy bears that had taken you months to make. You had asked us in advance what our favourite colours were, and surprised us on Eid with a teddy bear woven in each of ours. My answer to you, as a 7 year old, had been grey. Naturally, my siblings began teasing me, telling me I was weird and that I should change it. You immediately put an end to their laughter with a stern but caring look that only a grandmother can master. “If she likes grey, she likes grey. I think it’s a very nice colour.” On Eid morning, sure enough, there you were waiting for me with a grey teddy bear. “Your mom told me to pick another colour for you, but I told her ‘Zina likes grey, and so grey it will be.’” You wove more than just remarkable works of art, but a sense of acceptance into me from such a young age. Thank you. Through you, I met the best math tutor I could wish for. The biggest gift you could have left for us was raising wonderful and talented Kris. Kris, you spent months tutoring me in a subject I abhorred. In passing along all the patience that flowed naturally through you, you transformed me into a child who earnestly looked forward to our sessions. You taught me determination, how to escape my comfort zone, and personal growth. Like Bev, your company is loved by all and your optimism contagious. The apple may fall at the speed of -9.81 m/s^2, but it certainly does not fall far from the tree. Thank you. Through you, I met the most inspiring firefighter and role model. Hal, you are a beacon of light to all who know you. You immediately stepped into the role of the wise and humble grandfather figure we longed for. There are specific moments with you that have strongly shaped me, but it came so naturally to you that I wonder if you ever noticed. I wonder if you recall teaching me how to safely climb a 24-foot ladder. Or the time you walked across a stranger’s lawn and pulled out weeds for them. I was shocked. “What if they see you??” to which you replied, “If they see me, they’ll see someone rescuing their bush, and if they don’t see me, all the better. You should never be afraid of doing something good.” There was another time you were helping my mom at Home Depot and eased the tension from all the side glances you were getting. “Why is it so hard for people to see a Muslim woman shopping for hardware tools with an old man like me?” You were ahead of your time in defying stereotypes and encouraged those around you to do so, making it clear why you and Bev loved each other so much. You were, and will forever be, each other’s unequivocal match in bravery and lightheartedness. Thank you. Bev, at my high school graduation you gave me two cards. One was for my current graduation, and you said one was for my future. I was bewildered and didn’t understand. With a twinkle in your eye, you calmly said, “If there ever comes a time when I can’t be there, I want you to remember how proud I am of you.” Bev, I graduate medical school next year. I wish there was a cure or ailment for all the physical pain you faced, and all the heartache you leave behind. You will never read this, but I will come back to it time and time again to remind myself of a promise that I make in your honour. I aim to humbly follow your example and hope to forever practice with the same care, understanding, wisdom, and uplifting spirit that you did as an artist, a teacher, a friend, a nurse, a mother, a wife, and above all, as my adopted grandmother.

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Mike and Karen Mailloux posted a condolence

Monday, May 20, 2019

Dear Hal and family Mike and I were very sad to see that Bev had past away. We always thought Bev was a lovely lady and we know you and your family will miss her. We offer our sincere condolences. Love Mike and Karen Mailloux

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dianelancaster827@gmail.com posted a condolence

Sunday, May 19, 2019

So sorry to hear of your loss Hal,.... You and Bev were always there for Dad when he needed it. Those memories are fondly remembered. Prayers are with you and family at this time. Diane Lancaster (Durocher)

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Mary Ann Max posted a condolence

Sunday, May 19, 2019

Ila, I have so many fond memories of conversations and laughs with you and Bev at the spinning classes. What was truly amazing, was your wonderful friendship, truest in every sense of the word. What a gap Bev's passing will be, but what wonderful, very special memories you have. My condolences as well to Bev's family. Mary Ann Max

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Debbie Westbury posted a condolence

Sunday, May 19, 2019

To Hal and Kristen. I would like to express my deepest sympathies. As a long time employee at Dr. Fortuna’s office I want you to know it was always a pleasure to see Bev’s smiling face in our office. She always had a positive attitude and energetic presence. One of a kind......loved by all of us in the office and will be deeply missed. Deb Westbury

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Rita Laforet posted a condolence

Saturday, May 18, 2019

Dear Hal and family...I was so very sorry to hear of Bev’s passing. She will truly be missed and thought about often. Her beautiful smile, cheery nature always was uplifting to those around her. Bev was one of my favourite patrons when I worked at Riverside Library and her generous nature will always be remembered. She gifted my two grandchildren with her beautiful blankets and knitted teddies! I also have ( in her handwriting a very favourite recipe “Cloghoppers”) May Bev Rest In Peace and be the most loving Angel to watch over all!

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margaret marentette posted a condolence

Saturday, May 18, 2019

I bowled with Bev when we were called "the Happy Gang"at Tecumseh bowling lanes. I loved her laugh and warm heart. I was lucky to have been a friend. She had an amazing talent for art and I was privileged to see some of her beautiful pencil drawings of historic places here in Windsor, always with great detail. My condolences to her family and friends. She will surely be greatly missed. Margaret Marentette

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Bill and Rene Konrad posted a condolence

Saturday, May 18, 2019

Hal, so sorry to hear of Bev's passing. Our sincerest condolences. Uncle Bill and Aunt Irene

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Sirin Chaker posted a condolence

Friday, May 17, 2019

My adopted Canadian grandmother, as she referred to herself, was that and so much more. Mrs. Bev, you took us in as new immigrants and showed us in true Canadian spirit what it means to be welcomed. You and Mr. Hal were the best neighbors that my family could ever ask for. I will never forget your knitting lessons, your warm hugs, and kind smile. You always had a smile on your face and your positive attitude was contagious! You gifted my siblings and I the most beautiful knitted teddy bears that we still cherish to this day. And when I had my daughter, you gifted her the most beautiful blanket along with more stuffed animals and a doll as well. Your love and kindness was felt by many and will be passed on to my kids when I tell them of the person who made these with love. I will miss you so much and wish I got a chance to see you more. I’m so sorry for your loss Kris and Mr. Oke.

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Lina Chaker posted a condolence

Friday, May 17, 2019

Despite the distance that grew between our houses, she will always be cherished in my mind as my 'adopted grandmother'... I won't forget all the times my schoolbus would drop me off at her house for weekly knitting lessons. She didn't just teach me how to knit - she taught me patience and perseverance with every dropped stitch. Most importantly, she taught me to slow down and not get frustrated with slow progress to avoid making mistakes. Her generous nature continues to be a sounce of inspiration to be charitable with our talents and always put a smile on the faces of those around us...

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Joan Austin posted a condolence

Friday, May 17, 2019

Bev was the Heart and Soul of the Book Club, and our next meeting will not be the same without her wonderful smile and witty comments. I will treasure our friendship, until we meet again.

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Carol Plante posted a condolence

Thursday, May 16, 2019

Although I never met your mom Kristen, I went t school with your dad and worked at the CAA with you. please share my sincere condolences for you and Hal and family. lol Carol Plante (Travis)

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Dawn La Valle posted a condolence

Thursday, May 16, 2019

Dear Kris and family, A beautiful soul has left this earth. Fond memories of walking into your house with your mom at the table sketching and drinking her glass mug of tea with bright, happy smile. She touched so many and will stay in our hearts forever. With love, Dawn La Valle

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Dolores Atkinson posted a condolence

Thursday, May 16, 2019

Hal and Kris.....my heart breaks for you, I have not known your dear wife/mother for a long while, however, in my short time getting to know her, thru our Book Club, her sweet kindness and joyful spirit was such a refreshing and lovely memory I will always cherish. I will always think of her when I make her scrumptious sticky toffee pudding...she was so gracious in sharing her recipe ❤️❤️❤️ Dolores Atkinson

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Manon Hughes posted a condolence

Thursday, May 16, 2019

Even though I met Bev just a few short years ago atTai Chi, her zest for life and generous heart make me wish she had been in my life forever! Rest in peace Sunshine! Manon Hughes

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Linda Symonds posted a condolence

Thursday, May 16, 2019

Bev was a well loved friend from the days we attended Ade Knox Swimming. We went through so many funny times together. We stayed in touch over the twenty years or more and have always made each other laugh. She will be sorely missed.

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Brenda.parsons@bell.net posted a condolence

Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Dear Mr. Oke and Kris, My heart sank when I saw your sad news. Immediately so many childhood memories come flooding back. The fondest were of our all nighter monopoly games. Those were such fun times. I remember our late night skates in the dark at Prince Charles school...how convenient you lived right across the street. I’ll never forget my first camping trip and how home sick I got but Mr. Oke was kind enough to drive me home. I remember how talented your mom was too! She simply was so full of life and energy. I feel blessed to have such fond childhood memories shared with your mom. My deepest sympathy to you. Bless you all. Brenda Parsons

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Rose Adkin posted a condolence

Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Hal and Chris ; Bev was such a beautiful person inside and out, I have some fun and fond memories of years ago. You will be remembered in my thoughts and prayers. Rose

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Beverley-Ann Beatrice Oke

May 29 1940 - May 14 2019